Monday 29 August 2011

Ignored in Love

It maybe cliche, but it still rings true.  You know the age old adages.  'Fine line between love and hate'. 
'If you love someone, let them go-if they come back, they are yours'.  'You get what you ask for'.
People could be as simple as they seem.  The whole thing about the simplist answer is usually the case...
Well.. not always easy to see the simplist answers some times.  Mess of emotions, hormones, and plain old hope can muck up the view.  Even to the most rational human, sometimes feelings make us mad as a hatter.
So, if your romantic partner is all about the attention while you are alone together...then how is it you feel invisable when the object of lust appears, and your mate turns on the heat of sexual want, and makes it obvious they are more than flirting.  Outright seducing.  And expect you to be ok with it?  After you made it very clear that you are all about a relationship of 2..not 3.  Not 4.  (ok..so I most likely,  as a (gay) man, would not turn down an experience like that..but its not what i am all about).
And funny thing is.. pretty such if I turned the tables and did shit like that...my mission would fail, because he would join right in and get even more aggressive. 
Sometimes, you can't pick and choose your battles, when your battles seem to be coming fast and furious...
Changes.  It is what life is about.

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